Friday, February 29, 2008

Is There No Dignity Left In The World of Women?

***Mature Content***








i am dumbfounded by what is going on in this video....i first needed to find out what a "plies" is. what does that mean? is it short for something? well, after a few clicks, this is what i found....









after seeing this, i wondered what about a plies made women lose their frazzled minds and carry on like they did on tape? furthermore, what is a 'bust it baby'? seriously, i really would like to know. now, we all know some women will do anything for 15 seconds of fame....we know this from Flavor of Love 1-3 and other girl-centered reality shows. but i am really curious about the desparation that would allow women to act in such a manner for just anyone. maybe i am so dumbfounded because i am personally not familiar with plies....but i am saddened by the lack of concern some women seem to have with their own image.

whatever you so choose to engage in while in the privacy of your homes, so be it. and i loved entertainment and silliness just as much as the next. but to subject yourself to world-wide humiliation for a moment of notoriety is beyond desperate, beyond distasteful...it's vile. and something tells me that none of these women were doing this to be fun and entertaining. there was a woman with the bottom of her butt cheeks hanging out saying how much she'd get with men and/or women. but the jewel was the young lady who spoke of waking up with a penis in her mouth. in my heart of hearts, i know that some of these ladies have children. children that will either view this clip or hear about it from others.


i sure hope the sacrifice of integrity, couth and values are worth it.

11 comments:

TravelDiva said...

Wow. You know, nothing ceases to amaze me these days. I made the mistake of going down to Miami last year during Memorial Day Weekend--not realizing it was Urban Beach week (which is pretty much freaknik). (I know crazy right). I saw women in so many states of undress--i mean hordes of women literally walking into the clubs in a thong and a halter top, that I realized there is a serious lack of self esteem among SOME black and latino women. I mean, for them, they just wanted to be ogled, video taped, and sexed up by nobody special. So this tape falls right in line with that.

What's surprising in that video is that some of those women seemed way too old for that. But I guess that shows that stupidity knows no age.

12kyle said...

PCD
I would say that I'm surprised...but I'm not. These females are crazy. I really don't know much about Plies other than he the fact that he raps. I wouldn't know him if I bumped into him in the streets. It's strange to see these woman doing all of this for a dude who'll be working at Burger King in 3 yrs. LOL

btw...I listen to hip hop and I don't know what a "bust it baby" is. LOL

@ traveldiva
You should probably avoid Miami and Daytona Beach for these type of events. Nuffin but trouble. And as a self respecting sista, you'd probably feel out of place.

shae-shae said...

I have been asking myself this for years. I'm starting to really feel like the minority when I hear of young & 'mature' women talking about their sex-capades as if they were just going to the grocery store. My cousin told me she went to an after hours party with her friends on Friday and there was a local woman there that she recognized by name. She said the woman is in her 40's. The chick took off her top and got up on a pool table saying, "I'm too sexy for y'all, y'all can't handle this!" My cousin said by the end of the night the woman was fully naked doing & getting done by 3 random guys. I was so shocked & disgusted by this... I mean dang, didn't anybody care? That would make me want to walk up to her and say, "WTF is wrong with you? Don't you know you could end up with AIDS and not even know who gave it to you? What about your kids (I heard she has 3)? You mother? Don't you love yourself at ALL!?" Ugh, sometimes doing nothing is just as bad as doing the act.

12kyle said...

@ shae-shae
Maybe she was an "ole skool Bussitbaby"
Haaaaa

Seriously, it makes you wonder where some of us are going.

12kyle said...

@ shae-shae
Maybe she was an "ole skool Bussitbaby"
Haaaaa

Seriously, it makes you wonder where some of us are going.

Opinionated Diva said...

I saw this on someone's blog last week (one view was enough LOL) and I was just floored. I still don't know who the heck Plies is and I've never heard his song in it's entirety either. I can only imagine that a "bust it baby" is someone he can bust a nut with and keep it moving.

It's hard for me to understand why sista girl was walking around in the mini skirt with her azz literally out...ON PURPOSE...but like you said some people are willing to do ANYthing for that fifteen minutes of fame. It's really disgusting.

idk... said...

I agree with 12kyle... nothing surprises me anymore either...

I don't listen to the raido anymore so I didn't and still dont know what a bust it baby is... the things some people do to get on tv make me smh so much I get dizzy

Celena Gill said...

What in the ghetto gold teeth hell is going on here? It's just sad--women demeaning and degrading themselves just to get at someone who could give a rat's behind about them? But what can expect in the era of Flavor of Love, Paradise Hotel, and the Bachelor (that show isn't innocent either)? Just a mess....

Eb the Celeb said...

OK... I couldnt even watch the whole thing... i stopped at the chick with the fuschia dress and matching fuschia weave...

Self worth has really gone out the window... these chicks base their self worth on having 2 seconds shaking their ass in someone's videos... they obviously dont feel their worth anything more than that.

Now I'm not bashing all video chicks. Legitimiate ones, that are models, that have an agent, that are using videos as a place to get their foot in the door to get to the next level and are doing things that are tasteful, I dont have a problem with it... but all these chicks, all I can do is shake my head!

TravelDiva said...

12Kyle I WOULD have avoided it had I known!!!! I was out of the loop!

Park Avenue said...

It's obvious that some people believe self dignity/pride are out of style & will do anything for a little TV time.