my blood is BOILING!!!!!
let me tell you what happened....lil PCD is currently enrolled in group classes, those being music & dance, along with gymnastics. all was well in the world. the summer session started a few weeks back and she was bumped up one age group for this semester. this group has a few slightly older kids. on the first day this little brat named *chad was standing by the ball bin and as my baby walked by to get a ball, he hauled off and slapped her on her back-HARD! she stopped dead in her tracks and looked like-WTF!?! as i've stated, we don't hit/spank her, so she is not in the habit of having ANYONE put their hands on her.
after he did this, i was rushing over about to do lord-knows-what. his mother saw me and she yanked him up, slapped him and sent him in another direction. altho i was still mad, i shook it off. the following week, here comes chad again, this time he slapped her on her torso. i shouted "get away from her!," as his mother came to get him. after class, the teacher gives the kids stamps on their hands, so as lil PCD was coming back to me...some other little boy named *raul was sitting in his mother's lap, having his shoes put on. as she passed them he slapped her in her face. I LOST IT!
i stood up and screamed. "WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE KIDS!?!?!" LET ME LEAVE HERE BEFORE I PUT MY HANDS ON SOMEBODY AND THEN IT WILL ALL BE OVER!" and i stormed out. but i was so upset that i sat in my car and cried for a minute. the look on her face was so crushing. she had no idea why and what was going on. when he slapped her in her face, she just had this expression of utter confusion and devastation...it broke my heart....so there came the tears. i don't play that with my kid. i don't care WHO you are, if you put your hands on my kid, its going to be a problem-FOR YOU! so i called the teacher and went off on him and told him how i would tear that place up if one more little urchin touched her. so the following class (which was last week), he made a general announcement about how the parents must supervise their kids and if they get out of hand habitually, they'd be asked to leave the class. no one was singled out. but as class went on, chad's mother made the remark, "chad, put your hands down before you hit somebody and that be another issue" with a VERY sarcastic tone.
i was not there because i had an extremely important appointment, so my mum took her, she just told me of this smart mouthed wench. so you KNOW i'm about to light it up this week, right? oh, it's about to be a misunderstanding in there. but the one thing i DID notice was that she smacks her kid....and he's a smacker. smacking my kid is gonna get him and his mother in a bad place....
***HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE THIS?***
18 comments:
Omg! I would lose my mind girl. I'm not a fan of kids, but the two that are deeply embedded in my heart; I'd seriously injure somebody over. I'm pretty sure I'd be in jail. I am glad you held your composure, because what occurred was a definite NO, NO! I'm not sure how some parents allow such things and then get mad when the other parent singles out their kid as being a serious issue. It's the parent's fault! Ahhh, PCD, this would've been a true "n*gga moment" for me. Or as you say, a "misunderstanding".
Hey Sistah PCD!
Well, I totally understand that as a loving mother...you are ready and willing to pull out the boxing gloves for anyone messing with your baby....but I encourage you to handle this situation tactfully.....
Sounds like this little boy is repeating what his mother does to him...not to say that it's right, but that's appears to be the case....
I am known for respectfully and lovingly putting kids in their place...to be honest I'd probably go over to the little boy next time I see him and give him a hug and say "you have a good practice today.".........that boys probably NEEDS a hug......
Oh I am soooo sorry this happened to you and Lil PCD!!
Kids are just awful these days and their parents aren't any better!
I would've done the same thing you did in that situation. I don't have children yet, but I know that I will do my best to protect them at all times just like you did.
It just goes to show that if you hit your kids, they'll hit others. It's a cycle.
Good gosh almighty! I probably would've snatched those little jokers up, instructed them not to EVER slap my child again and then asked their mothers to watch and discipline their children or the police would be called.
Please know that I would NOT be doling out hugs.
I'm as non-violent as they come, but when it comes to my child, all bets are off!
I cannot believe anyone would allow their child to act like that - what a shame!
Baby I understands how you feel. It worked out good for me since I had so many childrens. Hell, they would tag team a fool that touched one of them. But I ain't saying it was right though. Just try to be calm with whateva you decide to do baby. Take care now.
Signed
Ruthie Ann
It goes right back to your last post, if you raise a child with spankings and smacks they feel its ok to do it to other. CJ has picked up this nasty little habit from one little boy his sitter watches, And I went off on his mother. To which she replied this is how I discipline. I had to leave because I was two seconds from central booking.
In your case since Lil PCD is around I would handle it a little bit differently, perhaps speaking to the woman outside.
OMG!!! I'm so sorry that you and lil' PCD had to go through that. Some people are just stupid.
With that said, girl, there would be some smoke in the city and some furniture moving up and through there!
Where does that wench get off being sarcastic about somebody hitting your child. Sounds like she's the one who needs to be getting smacked.
I can understand your frustration about watching that and not being able to do that.
The reasonable person in me would suggest that you talk to the teacher about setting up a meeting between you and the parents of these lil' Ike Turners to talk to them about teaching their kids to keep their hands to themselves.
But the unreasonable hot head that I can be would suggest that you enroll lil' PCD in some self-defense classes and so she can knock the hell out of those kids when they touch her.
BY GOING OFF!!! I'M GETTIN HOT JUST READING THIS!! MY MOUTH FELL OPEN!!!! YOU CAN GET SMART ALL YA WANT TO CHICK THERE WILL BE SOME SMOKE IN THE CITY IF YA LIL RUG RAT BRAT TOUCHES LIL PCD ONE MO GAIN!!!!!!! Girl you bout to make me curse. I wish a child OR a mama would!!!
Oh no- I'd be in jail for beating Raul's butt- no lie!!!
Just reading that... I'm pissed for you, ready to write down the address to that school and take care of Raul and Chad so you can just chill... that's some nonsense right there! And that mom better watch it before she gets her mouth popped!
similar situation: when my oldest was 3, we sent her to school with her hair natural- in the CUTEST lil afro and a scarf wrapped around it- OMG, she looked soooo cute.
my ex took so long coming back from dropping her off and when he came back said some little Anglo, neo-nazi heifer POINTED and LAUGHED at MY BABY, and made her cry something awful to the point where the teacher and my ex had to tuck all her hair under the scarf because now she hated her hair.
WHAT?! My ex had to literally restrain me and hold me down in the chair for the longest time because it was ON!! Lucky for that girl and her parents that my ex was bigger and stronger than me...
to be honest with you knowing my temper it probably wouldnt have been a nice situation.
talk to those boys mother and let them know how you feel and if something isnt done about it then speak to someone over the program about having those kids removed because that is ridiculous
I would speak with the mother one on one but since she made that comment I am getting the vibe that she is clueless.
Try talking to her first and explain that hitting is not something that you will ever tolerate with your child. Inform her that her child needs to stay away from your baby if he does not know how to play properly.
Please let us know how this works out.
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WOW!!! You sound like Mrs12!!! I can't even front. She don't play. I'm easy going and mild mannered and she don't take no shit.
Sorry to hear that this happened to your daughter. Although you were angry, you did the right thing. You could've easily slugged somebody and caught an assault charge. And I don't think they let you blog from jail. lol
The only thing that I would have done differently was to make a PSA in front of everybody.
Hello parents. My name is Kyle. This is MY child. If anyone let's their child hit MY child. I'ma kick yo ass! And I'ma save you the trouble of callin the cops. I'll do it myself.
That's awful. I'm always sure to teach my son not to hit girls. And in the face?? That's a force. And I agree with the others. Def. talk to his momma. and if she has something flip to say, meet her in a dark alley with a 2x4. lol
Word, if little Cannon got smacked, and it was a continuous thing, no rap, I'm telling him to hit back... once or twice: I'll tell him to turn the cheek... after both cheeks are turned... you gotta hit back... and that goes for son or daughter...
I would have yoked up all they little arses... grab them by the front of they shirt... lift them just a little so their feet dangle.. and get real close and whisper but with a faint growl..."if you ever touch my daughter again, I will bleep bleep bleep bleep" you fill in the blank... bad arse kids need scare tactics and I am willing and able to give them out
Not a parent but if I was she would have been cussed out. How dare she allow her to physically hurt a little girl. WTH!! I would have set it off. I would be the bitch mother!! No child would be allowed in close perimeters to my child. Next time I see Chad and Raul...I would make threating motions like " I AM GOING TO BEAT YOUR ASS!! What nerve!!!
Aww poor baby..I would have lost it..luckily me and my lil one have never had that problem..
Her first day of day care when she was 24mts..a lil boy who is now her best friend took her purse..she lit into his ass they told me..I couldn't do anything but laugh..I'm glad she stood up for herself.. and I don't spank..It was natural for her..I didn't have to teach her..
Maybe you a lil pcd need to have the if some body hits you..you beat that ass..lol
I am so sorry you and your lil one had to go through that. Even though I dont have children....I already know how I am .....I would have slapped the shit out of that lil boy it would have been so quick I probably wouldnt have thought about it and then I would have lit into his mama's ass....my child probably wouldnt be coming back to that place....or if not then I would have let the mama know if you slap my child im slappin yo ass biatch! ....you handled that well cuz that couldnt have been me....
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