tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post104561337360596809..comments2023-11-05T03:30:33.911-05:00Comments on The Pretty Circle: The Pretty Spotlight: The Art of ForgivenessPCD (Pretty Circle Drawer)http://www.blogger.com/profile/03841214220651965401noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-72157794940517312722008-04-21T02:53:00.000-04:002008-04-21T02:53:00.000-04:00Totally sounds like self esteem is lacking on her ...Totally sounds like self esteem is lacking on her part. It is really unfortunate that a wife has to "barrow" money from the father of her child... to pay for a necessity like diapers and then be forced to pay him back! WTH?!!?<BR/><BR/>Forgiveness, as hard as it can be to do at times, sets the spirit free. Harboring a dislike towards a person or an action can reek havoc on one's spiritually. For me, it is always great to forgive. Holding that grudge just gives that person a sense of power over you and allows them to maintain it. Forgiving releases that power.Miss Mikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02844711272109432292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-52273984122779278552008-04-20T19:02:00.000-04:002008-04-20T19:02:00.000-04:00She's gone beyond forgiveness and crossed over int...She's gone beyond forgiveness and crossed over into that "letting him treat me like trash" and she should leave that situation. We all know it and I'm sure she knows it deep down too. Maybe she's not strong enough to. Hopefully she'll take some of Khia's "courage juice" and get it together. <BR/><BR/>Also, you've been <A HREF="http://theyoungandthereckless.blogspot.com/2008/04/tis-season-to-be-tagged.html" REL="nofollow">tagged</A>.Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16842665205996051815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-39809791582511920662008-04-18T18:11:00.000-04:002008-04-18T18:11:00.000-04:00Well I am a christian and I was taught that per th...Well I am a christian and I was taught that per the word you have to forgive seventy times seven which is pretty much all the time. I dont think that she should allow him to use and abuse her. I feel like she has made it this far really without him. Realize though no matter what any of us think or believe, she is not going to leave him until she truly understands the wrath of his unmerciless ways.CHA CHAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04785976373696616237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-90139668801996628902008-04-18T14:45:00.000-04:002008-04-18T14:45:00.000-04:00You can forgive...and leave. I don't think that sh...You can forgive...and leave. I don't think that she's helping herself by staying in this situation. You have to love yourself more than you love anyone else.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-55303967728645574592008-04-18T13:55:00.000-04:002008-04-18T13:55:00.000-04:00this is awful! i'm working hard on my forgiveness...this is awful! i'm working hard on my forgiveness. it's not easy but its necessary. like the one pic said, it's for your sanity. you're the one who goes crazy when you don't forgive. sigh.Jameilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3543575444853197743.post-72944483724814148812008-04-18T13:21:00.000-04:002008-04-18T13:21:00.000-04:00I think there is a line to forgiveness; after all ...I think there is a line to forgiveness; after all you only have two cheeks to turn. I have removed one friend from my life because I got tired of her not addressing the issues in her marriage, then divorce and addition of new man in less than 6 months and then turning around and blaming others for judging her even when no one said a word. <BR/><BR/>At first I was on her side, (I knew from the time she got married it was going to be a disaster he was hustling and they had a daughter whose birth he missed because he had been shot in ATL). but then this guy turned his life around and worked a GOOD steady job and she kept beating him up for it. I never sided with him but I told her to look at what she had done and then make the decision to throw stones. To make an already long story short, she kicked him out and moved another dude into his house within months (with her two daughters), & ended up being investigated by child welfare. I spoke to her about it and she was furious and told me I was and had always been judgmental of her (ok there is a lot more to this but that’s the big part)and her life choices. And I decided after hearing that I would sever the relationship totally. I had heard her say it before but when she said always had been I turned my last cheek and walked away. <BR/>I think about her because I hope my god daughter is ok but other than that it’s been a weight lifted. <BR/><BR/>PS if my husband did some 'ish like that I would kick his A$$. The vows you take before God are sacred but God would not want you to damage yourself just to live up to them. This man and his momma are at best TOXIC and she has a child to worry aboutThe F_Uitlisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05537743664312801916noreply@blogger.com